Many moons ago I asked my wife to marry me, and after careful thought I remembered how I did it. The question was what do you think it means for a wife to submit to her husband (which was based on Ephesians 5:22). Her response was I will not submit to any man. My question was, have you ever read Ephesians 5:22-5:33, and her response was no. However, after reading and completely understanding it totally made sense to her. Now even though we have had some road-blocks along the way…I have loved her the real man way ever since.
Ephesians 5:22-33New International Version (NIV)
Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.